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Engagement Evaluation

This "test" is not meant to be a definitive answer about your compatibility with the person you are dating, but rather, it is one of many resources that can provide you with information for your prayer and discernment. Please respond to the following statements as honestly as you can.

1. My parents approve of the person I am dating.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
2. The person I'm dating is good at sharing his/her feelings.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
3. When I argue with my boyfriend/girlfriend we sometimes swear at each other.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
4. The majority of my friends think my boyfriend/girlfriend is good for me.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
5. My boyfriend/girlfriend acts different in public than when we're alone.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
6. The person I'm currently dating has an addiction that worries me a little.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
7. My boyfriend/girlfriend puts my needs above his/her own.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
8. I feel like my boyfriend/girlfriend will make a great father/mother for our kids.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
9. My boyfriend/girlfriend sometimes ignores me or gives me the "silent treatment."
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
10. I am satisfied with how we communicate, including how we solve our problems.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
11. My boyfriend/girlfriend is selfish.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
12. The way my boyfriend/girlfriend and I fight sometimes scares me.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
13. My boyfriend/girlfriend has had a good reputation for many years, including before I knew him/her.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
14. I feel like my boyfriend/girlfriend is a good listener.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
15. The person I am dating currently has a significant amount of debt.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
16. My boyfriend/girlfriend is a prayerful person.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
17. When I have a fight with him/her we sometimes call each other names.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
18. I feel loved and cherished by my boyfriend/girlfriend.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
19. I would feel very incomplete unless I got married.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
20. My boyfriend/girlfriend attends church regularly.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
21. My boyfriend/girlfriend sometimes hurts my feelings by making fun of me.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much
22. We share a lot of the same interests.
  • No, not at all
  • No, not much
  • A little
  • Yes
  • Yes, very much

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